FuckYeah! Ask a Bi!

I swear, it is like you didn’t read my post at all. Question was deleted from fyaabi’s inbox, as it has nothing to do with bisexuality. If you want to discuss anything pertaining to the racist aspects of the last post, as I said before, respond to my personal blog.

Harry

Anonymous asked: I'm a 33 year old male, only dated girls my whole life til maybe 5 years ago the girl I was dating at the time brought up the idea of me sucking cock. It ended up happening shortly after and now I really love sucking cock, especially those that are big, bigger than me, I'm barely 5.5 inch. So now I'm single and obsessed with big black cocks. I've been with more black than any other race and they were big 8-10 inches. I'm not attracted to men aside for their big dicks. I'm very into girls.

I’m going to be perfectly honest with you, and if you have issues with me answer, pease respond to me through my personal tumblr, harrrymonster.

I think you have a seriously inappropriate fetish with black cismale genitals, which is racist, and any black partner you have should be aware of that. You, unless you are black yourself, have weirdly fixated on a specific race of people based on a stereotype perpetuated by a racist culture that we live in. It is wrong. This obsession is wrong.

Now, as far as your submitting to this particular blog, I’m guess you are either identifying as bisexual or are thinking that title might apply to you based on your sexual experiences. There is nothing wrong with desiring to be sexual with a cismale. There is nothin wrong with enjoying giving oral to cismales. But the way that you are fetishizing black men is wrong, and though I don’t think it is your intention to be racist, that is what is happening.

-Harry.

Anonymous asked: part 2: she didnt care at all and was very open about it , another thing is my parents, even though i know its okay to be bi i feel as if they will look down at me and it makes me feel its a bad thing to be this way, so im hesitant, also i have a boyfriend and i dont know how he would react its hard to tell what hes thinking :/ pls help!!

You’ve gotta go with your heart! If you’re bisexual and you want people to know, tell them! Tell your parents if you want, or don’t - that’s completely your choice, and you don’t HAVE to come out to anyone at all to consider yourself bisexual!

Anonymous asked: part 1: hi im a 15 year old girl who is attracted to both sexes, but i havent told anyone about it, and i think my friends would be off about it and maybe avoid me- they have a crude sense of humour and make fun of a bunch of inappropriate things but theyre really nice girls they just like the 'pun' behind offensive jokes. anyways im not sure how they would react so im hesitant to tell them, ive only told one person who i sometimes hang out with because i know she is very trustworthy

girlsgenerationdiamonds asked: Hi! I was wondering if you think i'm bi or pansexual,i'm being serious in this Ok i'm 17 and for over a year,i've been having major girl crushes.Take a look at my blog,and you'll see that half of my posts are of girls. I also like guys. I get urges to kiss girls. Here's the thing though,i'm too shy to act on my thoughts. I get obsessed with girls. I don't want to feel limited. If a guy likes me,great. If a girl likes me,awesome.I'm not sure what to do. I've never dated before,but I want to.☺

It’s soooo hard for someone to determine someone else’s sexuality, especially without knowing you! You just sort of have to follow your heart… there’s not a huuuuge difference between bisexuality and pansexuality so if you’re not extremely concerned, you could label yourself as bisexual to avoid dumb questions and judgements from people, but it’s completely up to you!

Anonymous asked: HEY, I'M A 16 YEAR OLD GIRL AND BI, I'VE ONLY JUST RECENTLY COME TO ACCEPT THIS AND HENCE AM ONLY OUT TO LIKE 3 VERY CLOSE FRIENDS, BUT I LIKE THIS GIRL, I'M LIKE 60% SURE SHE'S BI AND RUMOUR HAS IT HER AND ANOTHER GIRL I KNOW USED TO GO OUT. I'D LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HER BUT I DON'T WANT TO ASK HER OUT UNLESS I KNOW SHE LIKES GIRLS. IS THERE ANY WAY I CAN ASK HER WITHOUT 1. OUTING MYSELF 2. REVEALING MY INTENTIONS 3. AWKWARDNESS. WE AREN'T THAT CLOSE AND IDK WHAT TO DO!

Ask her on anon or have a friend ask her? Sort of a sticky situation… you could try being a little flirty and see how receptive she is also.

Anonymous asked: I'm 18 years old and I have a hard time accepting my bisexuality. I find girls very attractive and I would love to have a girlfriend one day, but I'm afraid there is no chance of it. What makes it even worse is that I'm from Poland, and discrimination is very common here. The only person I've ever came out to - my best friend, who I had a crush on - ended our friendship in response. I have no idea if it's worth coming out, or if I'd better try to ignore this part of myself and settle for men.

Follow your heart, girl! Don’t let society or others bring you down because you’re just going to be unhappy in the end and that’s totally not okay. It might take some time, but you’ll find accepting people. It will get better! If you think you’re bisexual, wear that badge proudly.

Anonymous asked: hi. I am unsure of my sexuality. I have only ever liked guys (aka, 2) long term, but I find girls attractive. I identify as a demisexual (only liking someone whom you have developed an emotional relationship/feelings for, ie: friends/good friends. There is a girl in my school who was actually talking about being a lesbian, among other things, quite openly. I have previously noted that she is quite pretty and funny. I added her on facebook, and when she accepted I felt happy and silly. help me?

Start talking to her!! Just like you would anyone else. Get to know her, see where things go!! You don’t seem to be too old yet, so expect your sexuality to change. As I like to say: sexuality is fluid!

Anonymous asked: (3/3) I kind of feel like I still want to be with this girl, but just not have sex with her. I don't understand why I can have fantasies of being with women and get really turned on by them, but I'm uncomfortable being sexual with a real women, but I do enjoy being romantic with that woman...I'm so confused. I feel guilty about using her, and afraid of hurting her.

Well, this is probably the most confusing time in your life, so it’s not a surprise you’re confused about your sexuality. If bisexual doesn’t really feel like the right label to you, you could specify a little. For example, you could be biromantic (engaging in romantic relationships with both sexes) but heterosexual (only having sex with the opposite gender). It’s up to you to decide what to do with those kinds of labels, but it might placate your mind a bit. It could also be that you haven’t met the right person yet! 

Anonymous asked: (2/3) Lately I’ve started seeing this girl. She’s perfect on paper, and I love holding hands and kissing and cuddling with her, and I thought it was going really well. But we had sex for the first time, and it just did absolutely nothing for me. I wasn’t turned on at all—in fact I was actively kind of grossed out, it felt almost incestuous. And since then, I’ve found myself craving men and wishing I was with a man. I’m really confused now.