FuckYeah! Ask a Bi!: Archive

FuckYeah! Ask a Bi!

January 2011

125 posts

Anonymous asked: Hi,
I'm an almost completely closeted guy with some issues. I think I've had an attraction to men for just as long as I've had an attraction to women, and I suppressed those feelings. For the longest time I told myself that I shouldn't feel that way, and I still do to a certain extent. There's no reason for me to believe what I feel is wrong, I am very liberal...

Anonymous asked: I'm a girl and I don't know if I'm Bi........................ I mean I think I am but i don't know. I am attracted to guys and girls but I don't know if I can fully have a relationship with a girl..... I never really liked liked a girl before but I am sure I can but I'm just kind of scared. I mean I can accept myself for who I am but I don't know how my family...

euphoriaplocephalus asked: [[[[I hope you won't mind posting this: It's important to get Queer info out!]]]]

Hey Everyone; My name is Sinia Rodriguez [http://euphoriaplocephalus.tumblr.com/] & I'm a co-chair for this years' Queer People of Color Conference, which is being held at UCR in April (8th-10th)!

The Theme for this year is Decolonize Your Mind.

We...

kitsune-desu asked: You guys never answered my question. ):

kitsune-desu asked: So I got asked out by this girl and it was the first time we were meeting. She bought me lunch and it went really well. We have a lot in common and we talked a lot and it was really nice. As we were leaving she said she was going to walk me to my car like a "gentlemen" and when we got there she said "I had a lot of fun and I want to do this again. Text me, okay?" And then she...

Anonymous asked: I think i'm bi and am afraid to tell my Parents, iam female and i've been attracted to one girl who is lesbian and i've never really interacted with lesbians or Gays and i'm not sure if this is just like a phase since she is a lesbian so its okay to have feelings for her, but should i come out to my Parents or should i wait to see...

amazingly-creative-jayy asked: hey uhm haha im jose and im bisexual im 14 gunna be fifteen soon<3 coming out slowly to the world because i jst feel like i wont be accepted :/i guess i moved alot and most of the places i used to live i came out when i left but before ive tld all my friends not only the trustworthy ones i wanna come out to my parents but don't know how my mom doesnt seem to like gay or stuff like that idj...

kakashi2be93 asked: Sorry this is my 2nd question. How would you feel if you had a friend who was either a Lesbian or Gay man who didn't consider you as gay just because you liked both sexes?

kakashi2be93 asked: How do you feel about girls who call themselves bisexual only because their boyfriends like to watch them make out with another girl and their willing to do this for him, but would never actually go out with a girl? I was just curious because i get annoyed hearing chicks saying how they're bi just for this reason and not because they actually like girls. I'm like seriously that...

dreamdaemon asked: Coming out as bi to my mom was a really devastating blow in my trust towards her and for her to accept me however the hell I am, but even tho she can be like that with me, I do not change myself. Because this ain't a phase, is my way of life and sooner or later she would just don't give a damn about it...because I don't give a damn of phobics or haters...they don't live for me....

memoirs-of-a-lady asked: Hi
I am a seventeen year old girl and I'm feeling really confused. I have liked boys for a long time but recently for the past two years,I've been noticing that I seem more attracted to girls and I also check them out sometimes. I'm confused because there are moments where I wake up in the morning and decide I like girls, then immediately it shifts to guys. It's really...

Anonymous asked: i don't know if i am bi.
i am in a GSA at my school.
i am 17 and i have been with a girl and then people started finding out and i just freaked and hurt the girl a lot and hurt myself.
its been almost a year and i don't really know what i am but i keep thinking about this one girl. and i have done this before but i have just tried pushing it away and made up excuses...

Anonymous asked: hey, im a male (straight?) and lately i found myself attracted to (and this is gonna sound weird...) to "traps." i am not attracted to other guys like me but im okay with transsexuals. would this make me bi? help! :/ thx!!

driftingfocus asked: So, here's my question:

I've always had a lot of difficulty defining myself. I'm not a huge fan of labels anyway, but sometimes, they can help with clarity.

I'm mostly attracted to men, but occasionally attracted to women. I don't seem to have a "type" within either gender that I go for, though the men are always traditionally...

Anonymous asked: What do you think about this? http://yourhopelessyoulostthis.tumblr.com/post/2875163911

theholdingcompany-deactivated20 asked: Hi ,my name is Michael I just stated my first blog.....what advice would you give me that might help me out thank you....

Anonymous asked: Ok. Here is a thing... I'm bi. But I've been always freaked out about telling someone I am. My girlfriend knows I've made out with boys and stuff. She is a bi (but nobody knows, except her close friends). The thing is I'm so freaked out to tell anyone I'm a bi, cause I don't want to be treated like shit (culture here is kinda Vintage)... and I feel like screaming it,...

alwaysmore asked: I just figured out I was bisexual recently, and I know I have to tell my parents. It's not an issue of getting kicked out or anything since they have told me before that they will love me no matter what, but I have a gay uncle and they're very disappointed in him. Both of my parents and my grandmother believe that gay people choose to be gay, and I'm afraid they'll think the...

Anonymous asked: i want to make this short and simple, but its hard to make something so serious so simple. i have this problem and i cant talk to anybody about it, so im in desperate need of advice.
im a 15 year old girl, raised with very very strong christian beliefs and very very boy obsessed, haha. you see, i keep having "dreams" about other girls, thinking about them in ways that i...

Anonymous asked: I know that you don't need to label your sexuality, and I know you can't magically decipher 'what I am'- but maybe it wouldn't hurt just to share what I feel. I can honestly say I've never been sexually attracted to a guy (I'm female for reference)- well, technically I've 'fallen' for guys but I can't stomach the idea of what's below the...

Anonymous asked: so recently i have been getting more and more involved in the LGBT community and i started reading about pansexuality. ever since i was in sixth grade (i am now in 11th) i have acknowledge my attraction to both males and females however, reading about pansexuality has made me think more into who i am attracted to. in my mind, i can love anyone at all, not just males or females but anyone, but at...

Anonymous asked: so recently i have been getting more and more involved in the LGBT community and i started reading about pansexuality. ever since i was in sixth grade (i am now in 11th) i have acknowledge my attraction to both males and females however, reading about pansexuality has made me think more into who i am attracted to. in my mind, i can love anyone at all, not just males or females but anyone, but at...

Anonymous asked: i want to make this short and simple, but its hard to make something so serious so simple. i have this problem and i cant talk to anybody about it, so im in desperate need of advice.
im a 15 year old girl, raised with very very strong christian beliefs and very very boy obsessed, haha. you see, i keep having "dreams" about other girls, thinking about them in ways that i...

Anonymous asked: I know that you don't need to label your sexuality, and I know you can't magically decipher 'what I am'- but maybe it wouldn't hurt just to share what I feel. I can honestly say I've never been sexually attracted to a guy (I'm female for reference)- well, technically I've 'fallen' for guys but I can't stomach the idea of what's below the...

Anonymous asked: so recently i have been getting more and more involved in the LGBT community and i started reading about pansexuality. ever since i was in sixth grade (i am now in 11th) i have acknowledge my attraction to both males and females however, reading about pansexuality has made me think more into who i am attracted to. in my mind, i can love anyone at all, not just males or females but anyone, but at...

alwaysmore asked: I just figured out I was bisexual recently, and I know I have to tell my parents. It's not an issue of getting kicked out or anything since they have told me before that they will love me no matter what, but I have a gay uncle and they're very disappointed in him. Both of my parents and my grandmother believe that gay people choose to be gay, and I'm afraid they'll think the...

Anonymous asked: My best friend is really, really touchy. Hugs, using me as an armrest, flirting, you name it. But she's straight. (I'm a girl). And I'm in love with her. What do I do? :/

Anonymous asked: My best friend is really, really touchy. Hugs, using me as an armrest, flirting, you name it. But she's straight. (I'm a girl). And I'm in love with her. What do I do? :/

Anonymous asked: Hello,

I'm 21 years old and I recently came out as bi to my family. My mom in particular did not respond very well, and says that she knows I'm interested in men, and since I "can" choose, I should "choose" to be straight so that my life will be easier. She just seems to be having a really difficult time accepting bisexuality as a legitimate...

Anonymous asked: So today a friend of mine told me that she thinks she may be bi too, leaning more towards guys. She said she's had this feeling for about 3 months now, and that me coming out made her feel much more open and she started wondering herself. I'm a very open and proud bisexual, but the only problem is that I didn't really come out until last September. I want to help her explore her...

asternomical asked: Me again! LOL
I asked the Q about the girl flirting and asking her to see Black Swan.
Sooo...it turns out she has a boyfriend.
We still haven't been able to hang out and I am not letting myself get too wrapped up but I'd still like to invite her to a movie. She's obviously off the market but it does seem like tons of girls find out their true feelings when...

drugsandgrapes asked: In English class, we have to do a presentation and I want to do it about the difference between gender, sex and orientation.

How would I do this?
(How would I present it, what would I say etc.)
(Also, It's an all girls' school, and I'm in year 8, so it can't be too... inappropriate...)

If this is the wrong place to ask, can you...

drugsandgrapes asked: In English class, we have to do a presentation and I want to do it about the difference between gender, sex and orientation.

How would I do this?
(How would I present it, what would I say etc.)
(Also, It's an all girls' school, and I'm in year 8, so it can't be too... inappropriate...)

If this is the wrong place to ask, can you...

Anonymous asked: I'm a 30yo mom and am married to an amazing, accepting man. I love him, and the sex is fantastic, but I'm feeling almost hungry for a woman's touch. The husband is totally fine with it, but it's been so long, I don't know where to start! (I'm not looking for anything long term with a woman.) Suggestions?

3daysofpeac3andmusic-deactivate asked: So im almost 15, and in 9th grade. When i was in 7th grade. i noticed i was attracted to girl, but i never had a reason to come out. i never really thought about coming out. i dont really see the big deal with being bisexual. so this year i had told my mom that i really liked this girl. and my mom told me that shes understood and its a phase. a week later the girl asked me out, and kissed me in...

themamahen asked: I don't know if at this point I am looking for advice or merely looking for a sense of comfort after everything that has happened to me in the past week. I was recently forced to come out to my parents about me being bisexual, in saying forced, I mean that they locked me in the room with the until I admitted whether or not I was a lesbian or bisexual. After being put on the spot, I finally...

Anonymous asked: So today a friend of mine told me that she thinks she may be bi too, leaning more towards guys. She said she's had this feeling for about 3 months now, and that me coming out made her feel much more open and she started wondering herself. I'm a very open and proud bisexual, but the only problem is that I didn't really come out until last September. I want to help her explore her...

Anonymous asked: So, I am pretty sure that I am bi, for a couple of weeks now. I fell in love with one of my friends about a year ago, but she was the only one I had that kind of feelings for so far. Now, since a few weeks, I really want to date girls. I mean, when I think about kissing a girl, being more intimate, you know, I get all this butterflies in my stomach, and yeah, it's kind of a turn on for me,...

Anonymous asked: Hey
There's a girl I see around my college - I've never spoke to her but I see her around quite a bit. I think she may be either bi or homosexual, but I cannot be sure, and I think I have a crush on her. Even though we've never spoke. She's never on her own, and we rarely make any eye contact. I really want to talk to her, or at least find out who she is. I'm not...

Anonymous asked: Hey
There's a girl I see around my college - I've never spoke to her but I see her around quite a bit. I think she may be either bi or homosexual, but I cannot be sure, and I think I have a crush on her. Even though we've never spoke. She's never on her own, and we rarely make any eye contact. I really want to talk to her, or at least find out who she is. I'm not...

prince2 asked: hi forget the name prince2. my name is debbi. i'm a43 y.o.non-practicing bi-sexual. i'm in a relationship with a wonderful man,exept WEdon't even make love.not 4 a few years.im wanting to hook up with a friend on your site but you all seem so young. i'm confused,and i cant tell my partner, what i want. i'm afraid he'll leave me. i'm so sex crazy at mo.thank you,...

Anonymous asked: ...damn. I predict this will be long and soppy. Apologies, apologies. I know by now you've probably answered this question a thousand times over, but, hey...inconveniencing others is the only talent I have! I live in a ridiculously conservative corner of the States. I'm an adolescent gal and naturally sexually and spiritually befuddled. I've kissed...seven girls by now. One guy. All...

Anonymous asked: I'm incredibly confused with myself at the moment.
I am a 19 year old male who has recently been thinking about what traits he wants in a partner.

For ages I've always thought of myself as straight. I see a girl, I like their personality, I like them, I begin to develop feelings for them, all straightforward.

But recently I've found myself being...

teachmetowalkinheels asked: So I don't know if this went through before because I sent it on my phone (so if this is in the ask box twice, feel free to delete this one or the other one :D I think I worried it differently before too)
I was just curious about something though.
All 20 years of my life I thought I was straight. I had always had crushes on boys, never girls. I never had a relationship, but when...

emtnlchaos asked: what do u think about bisexuals who are w/ a man and have been disowned by the gay community for lack of relatability??

Anonymous asked: So, I am pretty sure that I am bi, for a couple of weeks now. I fell in love with one of my friends about a year ago, but she was the only one I had that kind of feelings for so far. Now, since a few weeks, I really want to date girls. I mean, when I think about kissing a girl, being more intimate, you know, I get all this butterflies in my stomach, and yeah, it's kind of a turn on for me,...

Anonymous asked: ...damn. I predict this will be long and soppy. Apologies, apologies. I know by now you've probably answered this question a thousand times over, but, hey...inconveniencing others is the only talent I have! I live in a ridiculously conservative corner of the States. I'm an adolescent gal and naturally sexually and spiritually befuddled. I've kissed...seven girls by now. One guy. All...

Anonymous asked: I'm incredibly confused with myself at the moment.
I am a 19 year old male who has recently been thinking about what traits he wants in a partner.

For ages I've always thought of myself as straight. I see a girl, I like their personality, I like them, I begin to develop feelings for them, all straightforward.

But recently I've found myself being...