Anonymous asked: I am an extremely shy female. I would never approach a stranger, but see many I wish I could. I have only had any kind of sexual experience with men, but am still a virgin. I've never hooked up with a girl, but definitely am attracted to them and can imagine being happy in a same-sex relationship. I don't know what to do, and feel I will be forever stuck in this kind of limbo. I want a relationship, but have no idea how to get there. Please help!
I understand that right now it feels like you have to do everything you want to do, and try everything you want to try. To experience and understand and know and feel safe about your future and yourself. This is something that a lot of people want and desire. However, that’s not how life works. You have to be patient, take your time, and enjoy what you have right now.
You won’t always be stuck in this weird limbo. As long as you follow your gut feelings, love yourself, and enjoy your time here, you should be fine. Try not to stress about what to do or what you’ve done. Instead, take action. What do you have to lose? Maybe the answer to that question will you help figure out where to go from here. Maybe you need to work on past/present issues that are holding you back. Maybe you just need a step out of your comfort zone.
The most important thing is to be patient, open-minded, and respectful to yourself and others.
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