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Anonymous asked: Hey! So, I have this best friend who I've had since I was two. We are now in our mid twenties. Back in early High School we basically had sex. It started as innocent dry humping and ended up being pretty much full on sex. We did it all day every day all summer. When the summer ended, we never spoke of it again. We see each other at least once a year and talk all the time but we both pretend it never happened. The thing is, I want to do it again. And the only person I'd do it with would be him.

It sounds like you two need to have a talk. Whether or not that will lead to anything is up to you two, but I believe that it will be good to at least get some closure. If you live near each other, I suggest organizing a time and private place to meet to discuss what happened. It might be really awkward, it might not. 

Obviously, I am not an expert in your relationship, so regardless of my advice, trust your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable about talking about it, try and reflect on why that is. If you feel that all will be well, then perhaps you should go for it. It’s up to you to make the first move, based on what you said. So do what feels right.

I hope that helps and things get cleared up for you.


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