FuckYeah! Ask a Bi!

gotyousohigh asked: or am i really gay? so many people have told me that it doesn't matter about labels, but for once, i just want to be clear about something. please give me your thoughts? thank you xx

Well I will agree that labels don’t really matter! But I understand the craving for clarity. I’m just going to put out there that you could be homosexual and bi-romantic… basically meaning you’re only sexually attracted to girls but you’re romantically (meaning relationship-wise) attracted to both genders. If that doesn’t suit you, however, you should think about whether or not you really romantically love your boyfriend, or could love any boy like that - like a married relationship. Can you see yourself married (and happy!) to a man, or only a girl? It’s going to take some time and thought, but I’m sure you’ll figure it out. Best of luck! xx


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